One Night Bands

As “the world’s most famous groupie,” I have very personal access to the rock muses of this world; they love to open up to me and reveal their deep down yummy secrets. My 4th book, “Let’s Spend the Night Together,” was over-long (imagine that!) and this scintillating chapter had to be excised. But here it is in all it’s naughty, bawdy glory: the untold tales of groupies and their one night romps with rock gods.

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I’m With the Band

Originally published in ’87, the New York Times bestseller, “I’m With the Band” has been republished many times throughout the years, in the US and all over the world. The story begins with her early obsession with Elvis, Beatlemania madness, and her fiery determination to meet the musicians that rocked her world. Before she settles down with the glitterglam prince, Michael Des Barres, Pamela has scintillating encounters and wild affairs with mythological gods such as Jim Morrison, Frank Zappa, Captain Beefheart, Ray Davies, Jimi Hendrix, Jimmy Page, Mick Jagger, and Keith Moon. Not a kiss and tell just to kiss and tell, “I’m With the Band” is the honest story of a woman growing up in the thick haze of the rock revolution, and coming out the other side with joy and aplomb.

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Take Another Little Piece of My Heart

Her second book, “Take Another Little Piece of My Heart – A Groupie Grows Up,” continues the Des Barres saga into the rise and fall of a rock & roll marriage, the raising of a gifted, troubled son, the loss of her beloved daddy, O.C. Miller, and her best friend, Michele Myer, to breast cancer. It also tells the story of the relentless shenanigans of the ‘Face-Pack,’ Pamela’s group of goofy, glamorous celebrity best-friends. This book also delves into her ongoing spiritual quest.

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Rock Bottom

“Rock Bottom – Dark Moments in Music Babylon” took Pamela 3 years to write and research: 26 chapters of rock & roll excess and tragedy, featuring old friends and long-lost heroes such as Eddie Cochran, Syd Barrett, Jimi Hendrix and Led Zeppelin’s John Bonham.

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Let’s Spend the Night Together

“Let’s Spend the Night Together” twenty-five tales of groupiedom at its finest, chronicles love affairs, one-night stands and long-term romances between rock’s high-priestesses and their incandescent Rock Gods.

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  1. Elizabeth says:

    I’m currently reading ‘Let’s Spend the Night Together’. I’m very intrigued by the different stories & experiences.
    Does Pamela know anyone who ever ‘hooked up’ with Dave Edmunds? I would love to hear their story.
    Thank you

  2. Alionna Ar. says:

    Great thanks for you flourishing, gorgeous books, Pamela. Whould love to live up to your experience. Vita est nobis aliena magistra. Thank you. True Beauty.

  3. Just finished Rock Bottom ..thanks for a definative account of these brief lives..after all the rumors and bits and pieces it’ good to know what actually happened as far as we can tell
    I hope some university is beginning to think of an horourary doctorate in history for you

  4. I so want to kiss you…and of all the people I have encountered ,I feel you most understand just how much I do …

  5. scott warner says:

    Pamela…you and I went into the back of a van at a Love In in Griffith Park in 1969…I could never forget it…to be one of your boys… what a wonderful memory. Love You…Scott

  6. Laure says:

    Hi miss P,

    Why only two of your books are translate in french? I want all of them!!!!!
    Vous êtes GÉNIALE!!

    Love from France

  7. Nancy says:

    Is there any translation of any book in Polish ? If it’s there tell us how to get it…

  8. Elaine says:

    I read I’m With The Band years ago & loved it. I just read it again so many years later on my Kindle & loved it even more. Just purchased Take another little piece of my heart & Let’s spend the Night together. Didn’t want it to end so ill just continue reading….thks for all the great stories. You’ve really lived some hell of a life!

  9. sarah-jayne michel says:

    dear miss p , I as a 30 year oldbritsh woman have to thank you so so so so much for sharing your stories with us. It’s finally refreshing to see that my point of view of wanting to thank band members for making me feel so good through thier music , is a shared one . Now I never actually slept with any of them , but i did like to uhm kiss and play a lot and it is with unfortunate gaze that it wasn’t with anyone as god like as mr page ect but I had a wail of a time and wouldn’t change it for the world !
    Reading your book brought all those wonderful memories flooding back, and also rekindled the first feelings i had when i first met my hubby (my very own less famous jimmy page , plays lead guitar has dark long curls, thin and awkward physique).
    So i just wanted to thank you for being you, being a true feminist, showing that being a ”groupie” is nothing to be ashamed of and shaking off the taboos that follow that tag .
    Thank you , thank you , thank you
    Sarah-Jayne Michel

  10. Courtney Darrough says:

    Loved “I’m With The Band”, and “Let’s Spend The Night Together”! Look Forward To Reading The Others I’ve Missed! Rock On Miss Pamela :)

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